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Living one’s truth, I believe, is our highest calling in life. Have you realized you’re lesbian and you’re married? Get a therapist if you can to help you process the emotional path ahead of you, guilt, shame and regrets.
It can be a big shock of relief initially when you realize there’s a reason why you keep having crushes on your women friends or on one friend inparticular. I never did anything about it, but I know my face lit up whenever she called or we hung out. He asked if my friend had been visiting and I said yes. I couldn’t look him in the face and lie, so I told him the truth, “Yes, I’m attracted to her sexually but nothing like that is happening.” That led to a few years of fighting along with my confessing my attraction to women but never acting on it and my struggle sexually. Now I meet many women who have no idea until later in life they are lesbian. I couldn’t deny who I was or pretend that our marriage was working. There are married women who realize they are lesbian because they get into an affair with another woman. Some women become a lesbian twosome with a husband attached or do the work to leave a marriage and figure out how to make it on their own. Most husbands are deeply offended and become very angry.
I always knew I was attracted to women, but my own homophobia and my strict Catholic upbringing kept me from living as a lesbian. We think lots of silly things when we are in our 20s. Then he really looked at me and asked if I was involved with her sexually. The reasons you didn’t know aren’t as important as what will you do now. My husband threw me out of the house, not physically but by letting me know he was so angry that he was afraid he would hurt me physically.
Residing in Chippewa Falls, Wis., Jaimie Zinski has been writing since 2009.
Specializing in pop culture, film and television, her work appears on Star Reviews and various other websites.